Pamela J Thomas

Pamela J Thomas

You Are Not Behind. You Are In Transition.

Letters to My Sisters

Nov 05, 2025
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Dear Sister,

There is a sacred discomfort that comes with being between what was and what will be.

You may feel foggy, unsure, untethered. You might look around and wonder why clarity hasn’t arrived yet.

But here’s what I want you to know: This in-between space is not a punishment. It’s preparation. You are not behind—you are in the shift. And that shift is making room for your next becoming.

You don’t need to rush through this. You only need to listen. Notice what is no longer true. Let it fall. Let it compost.

The clarity will come. But first, let yourself be held by the mystery.

With tenderness,
Pam

bare trees surrounded by fogs
Photo by Branimir Balogović on Unsplash

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