In every season of becoming, there’s a whisper that says:
you don’t have to be perfect to belong.
Imperfection is not a flaw.
It is the doorway.
It is the place where God meets us whole.
Pause with me here…
You are allowed to arrive unfinished.
You are allowed to bring your questions.
You are allowed to be held by the community.
We are learning that imperfection is not failure.
It is formation.
The pulse isn’t performance.
It’s presence.
The rhythm isn’t polish
It’s truth.
It’s not about fixing what is broken.
It’s about trusting that imperfection is fertile ground.
The work will always ask for more.
The wisdom is knowing when to answer with less.
So I ask you —
Where in your life does imperfection want to be honored?
What becomes possible when you let the community hold your becoming?
What’s Been Blooming
Roundtable 2 quietly began on January 6
The Roundtable has formed, rooted in trust, rhythm, and restoration.
The women who’ve returned are anchoring something spacious and real.
Something new is unfolding — and I’ll be sharing more about it soon.
If you’ve been craving a space that feels like exhale, stay close.
There’s a new opening coming.
→ If you’ve been craving a space that feels like exhale, keep an eye out.
A seat at the Table may be calling you next.
Soul Sync Sessions — Episode 10 Recap
“Embracing Imperfection and Finding Purpose” with Temeka Thompson
Temeka, midwife of purpose, joined me for a moving dialogue about the sacred work of transition. We explored:
How imperfection leads us closer to purpose
Tools for navigating change with faith
What obedience looks like in a perfection-obsessed world
Her upcoming book, Obedience Over Perfection, is one you’ll want to hold with both hands.
Coming Soon
Soul Sync Sessions — Episode 11 Preview
“Community, Creativity, and Courage” with Lachrisa Grandberry
Actor, writer, and artist Lachrisa Grandberry joins me for a heartfelt dialogue on leaving the familiar, rediscovering purpose, and being held in sisterhood.
We talk about:
The courage to follow your creative call
How community opens new possibilities
Vulnerability as spiritual practice
📅 New Episode drops: Wednesday, Jan. 14 at 9 AM ET
Paid subscribers receive early access Wednesday, Jan. 11 at 7 PM ET
Save the Date: Community Celebration
Tuesday, Jan. 27 at 7 pm ET
We’ve planned a live gathering in honor of Women Don’t Retire.
This is more than a book — it’s a lineage.
We’ll share stories, intentions, and the resonance it has sparked.
Free & open to all — bring your sisters
Restorative Happy Hour
Thursday, Jan. 29 at 7:30 pm ET
Following the Book Celebration, I’ll be hosting a Restorative Happy Hour. This open house-style gathering is a gentle invitation into the Roundtable experience.
Come to exhale. Come to listen. Come as you are.
If you’ve been curious about the deeper rhythm of this work, you’ll want to be there.
More details coming soon…
In Closing…
If Women Don’t Retire found its way to you, you’re already part of this lineage.
And while I’m not ready to reveal everything, I can say this:
Something new is emerging in the Roundtable.
More spacious. More soulful. More aligned with the lives we are choosing.
No rush.
No pressure.
Just rhythm.
Every time a woman arrives imperfect, the lineage strengthens.
Every time one of us chooses authenticity over performance, the world tilts a little closer to truth.
As we move deeper into this year,
May your imperfection become an invitation.
May your community become an inheritance.
And may we keep building lives that no longer need recovery.
With devotion,
Pam